Last night our grandchildren Jessie and Jacob spent the
night with us. Bedtime is a story time
so I told them to each pick out a book and I would read to them. Jessie, who is eight, said she wanted to do
the reading of her book. So, while I
read to Jacob, Jessie read to Deidra!
The book Jacob chose is a long time
favorite, The Giving Tree. It is the story of a boy and a tree. When the boy was little he loved to climb the
tree, swing on the branches, and eat the apples. Both the boy and the tree were happy. But, as the boy grew up he had other
interests. He wanted money. That, he said would make him happy. So, the tree suggested he pick the apples and
sell them so he would have money. The
story states that when the tree gave the apples the tree was happy. Some
time later the boy, now a young adult, came back and the tree was delighted but
the boy was not interested in climbing or swinging. He wanted to build a house. So the tree gave him her limbs so the boy
would be happy. But, again, the story
says that when the tree gave the limbs the
tree was happy. A long time went by
before the boy came back again. This
time the boy, now obviously a middle aged man, wanted to build a boat so he
could sail away. The tree said you can cut
down my trunk and make a boat and sail away to be happy. So, the boy cut down the trunk of the tree
and made a boat and sailed away. The
story says that the tree was happy. But not really. The next time the boy came back he is
obviously a very old, tired man. The tree is sad that she has nothing else to
give. Perhaps that is why the giving of
the trunk left her not really happy. The
boy, now an old man, states that he is too old and tired to do much of
anything, he just needs a place to sit down. Suddenly, the tree has an idea. She straightens up as best a stump can
straighten. A stump makes a good place to sit. So, the boy, now the old man, sits down. The story ends with And the tree was happy.
The message of the children's book
is profoundly true. Over and over again
it is the giving tree that is happy. In the first part of the story when both the
boy and the tree are enjoying their mutual give and take, they both are
happy. But after that period not once
does it say that the boy is happy. It is
always and the tree was happy.
Ben Gill in his book, The Joy of Giving, says in the opening
paragraph,
My
life has been spent helping people to learn the gift of giving. After twenty-five
years in this pursuit, I come
now to tell you that one fact has become increasingly
clear: the happiest people on earth are the people
who have learned the joy of giving.
Much of our world is obsessed
with the pursuit of temporary happiness, missing the basic truth that genuine,
lasting joy is the product of giving, not getting. Giving is not limited to contributions of
money but rather is a life-style that encompasses one's whole personality. It is a life-style perfectly exemplified in
Jesus Christ. It is the product of the
Spirit of Christ functioning as the Lord within us.
May the
grace of Christ produce the joy of Christ within each of us.
Roger